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e ran out of 5-HTP for a few days and true to form, the anxiety and moodiness returned. This is a supplement that we make sure we never run out of these days. I use Klaire Labs 5-HTP
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>In the past few years of living in Autism-Land, many people have come up to me and said that they have never heard of recoveries in Autism. We are told that Autism is a life-long disability and that behavioral therapy is the only treatment available. Before Maya was diagnosed, I have never even heard of Autism (except for Rain Man of course) therefor I didn’t have much of a pre-conception about the prognosis. The first ever book I read which also gave me an inkling that Maya probably had Autism was by Jenny McCarthy. Her son recovered from Autism. When we finally received Maya’s Autism diagnosis, I vowed that I will recover Maya. If Jenny can do it, so can I. Whether we live in USA or Malaysia, Autism is Treatable. Please read the article below courtesy of my favourite Autism magazine, The Autism File.
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With every treatment or supplement we do, we always do it with the advice of a medical doctor. We follow the set protocol and usually get 2nd opinions on nearly everything. I don’t try out anything without a doctor’s recommendation or advice, I am very conservative and like to go slow and steady. I never start more than 2-3 new supplements in 1 month. I always start at a low dose and slowly work up to the recommended dosage. We keep meticulous record of everything we do and keep track of any side-effects, bad reaction or improvement made with each supplement or treatment. Though a lot of parents are brave and bold enough to implement a treatment or do biomedical treatments without the guidance of a doctor, I’m quite conservative. Slow, safe and steady has been our approach and so far, it has served us well. To a lot of other parents, my approach is very slow and far too conservative for their liking. However, we all have our trusted methods, this so called “slow” approach has given us tremendous progress. This is a brief overview of our treatment plan since we started biomedical treatments.
We have done several tests at different points in time, some more than once depending on the need. We tried an anti-viral treatment with good results, but we couldn’t pursue it further for the moment and had to be put on hold. We then concentrated on her methylation cycle – all the methyl donors eg Taurine, N-Acetyl Cystein, Folinic Acid, TMG and MB12 worked amazingly well for her. Each supplement showed good reactions; Maya was calmer, there was a sudden leap in clarity, cognition and language. We continuously had to address yeast overgrowth from time to time. We were also working towards balancing her immune system. We also investigated strep for possible PANDAS (Paediatric Autoimmune Neurological Disorder Associated with Streptococcus) though thankfully this turned out to be negative. Her long-term issue with dressing and wearing clothes were addressed, as well as finally able to toilet-train.
From time to time, some new issues would come to the fore such as her negative thought process and recurrence of anxiety and controlling behaviour. This was resolved quite quickly with the help of our doctors. Currently, we are prepping her for chelation and have just done the pre and post challenge test with showed a good excretion rate. Recently we did another round of the RBC (Red Blood Cell) test which tells us the levels of minerals, this is by far the most accurate test for mineral levels. We also did the kidney and liver panel again as well as viral panel to test for a range of viruses.
Maya is recovered from Autism and no longer requires behavioural therapy or special services. However, we still continue to pursue biomedical treatments to address other lingering health issues. Our challenges for this year will include addressing her heavy metal load especially mercury and will start chelation with DMSA very soon. We will investigate further into viral infections and we continually seek to address her immune dysfunction. Occasionally, she is prone to colds, flus and fevers.
Maya is a happy little girl who is thriving well at school. She has lots of friends and enjoys the same activities as other little girls. She has taught herself to play simple songs on the piano and loves ballet classes. Maya has a great personality and has the same sense of humour as her daddy. They have great fun and adventures together and you can frequently hear them giggling and laughing over some private joke together.
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I was recently reminded by how good sleep is generally in our home right now. It served to remind me to appreciate and not take for granted the good night’s sleep that we have all enjoyed for the past year or so. For the past 3 months, both the girls have been falling ill constantly. As usual, when children are sick, it also affects their sleep as well as the parents sleep. Having just come back from a quick little holiday with Paul, just him and I alone, we both enjoyed 2 nights of great sleep. Looking back, the sleep fairy has been extremely good to us in the past year. I had forgotten all the sleepless nights we had and how I used to crave even a straight 3 hour stretch to sleep. As a Mum, if your kids don’t sleep, YOU don’t sleep right? Since sleep disorders are a common issue for most ASD kids, I needed to remind myself of the luxury and privilege that I now have, a guaranteed good night’s sleep most nights. Nowadays, if they’re not sick, both girls would be in bed by 7.30pm and would stay asleep until 6.30am. Usually they will fall asleep by themselves without much fuss, but occasionally they would cheekily get out of bed again, so we would have to tuck them into bed again a few times, read countless bedtime stories and sing lullabies. But being the ungrateful parents that we are, Paul and I would moan over the 6.30am wake-up calls of them jumping on our beds, giving us kisses and cheerful “Good mornings !” How times have changed, how easily we forget…….
From the very first day she was born, Maya didn’t sleep well. Paul spent the 4 nights in hospital with me, sleeping on the floor. The hospital advocated the baby sleeping or rooming in with the mum immediately from birth, in order to facilitate bonding. There were no nurseries where babies are placed, all babies roomed in with the mums unless they were in ICU or if the mum had complications. The nurses would always be on hand to help, but Paul was and still is an amazingly hands-on dad. Because I couldn’t get up from bed for a few days after the Caesarean birth, Paul took charge of changing her nappy, rocking her and burping her. He even gave her her first bath, even for the next few weeks after because I was afraid to bathe her myself. In hospital, Paul would hand Maya to me whenever she needed to be fed. She would not sleep in her bassinet, preferring to sleep cuddled up next to her Daddy even from her very first day. She loved being held by Paul, he would sleep on a mattress on the hospital floor in my private room. She would cuddle up to him, her little face tucked against his chest. Only then, she would sleep peacefully. I remember nights in the hospital when she would scream and scream and I was not able to get up from my bed. Paul would rock her all night long, walking down the dark hospital corridors while trying to soothe her. Even while we were all holed up in hospital, Paul still had work to attend to and would try to catch up on his emails. He would sit on the floor in front of his laptop, Maya cuddled up in his arms whilst typing out an email.
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A parent had recently asked me if I was scared, she had written to me with such stark honesty about her fears and desperation. She wrote of her life, her child and how twisted her world had become. I can still remember living in a twisted world and I’m sure I have scared off a lot of friends and alienated many people around me with the intensity of my pain. Though I got a lot of sage advice, I was deaf to it because of the roaring of the pain in my soul.
To most people, listening to an Autism Mum can be quite challenging. It is hard for most people to truly understand what life is like with a child with Autism, most think that it’s like the movie Rainman or what is commonly yet wrongly portrayed in TV as what Autism is. For a lot of us Autism Mums, we learn the hard way not to talk about it with most people, otherwise you end up alienating yourself and lose friends. How often can a friend or even family members listen to you about the stimming, the spinning, the lack of speech, the poop smearing, the obsession to lick every single thing or the bad nights that the mum has had? The ASD symptoms can be quite bewildering to non-ASD parents, most of them don’t understand why we obsess over the seemingly small things. So what’s the big deal about lining up toys, waking up singing in the middle of the night, climbing on the television, biting the teacher, spinning in circles, lack of cooperation or speech that is slow to come? What’s the big deal about a child’s constant drooling, lack of eye contact, repeatedly tapping on the walls or standing upside down? No one wants to hear about the insane screaming and tantrums that used to go on in my home (except maybe you guys who are reading this!) When I talk about the meltdowns and anxiety, the picky eating and the non-compliance, usually I get blank looks or condescending remarks on better parenting.
My friend had poured out her soul into her email and wondered why I hadn’t replied to her. I finally wrote back and apologised, explaining that both my girls were ill and so was I, thus the late reply. I also wrote “You asked me before if you scared me; I have been in situations a lot scarier. I don’t scare easily.”
As a parent with a child with Autism, you would understand what those scary moments are. I have been scared when my daughter would bang her head so hard against the floor that I thought her skull would break. I remember the fear when I heard Maya laughing insanely in the dark at 3 o’clock in the morning. I have let fear stop me from getting treatment for my child. I have been afraid of being left alone with her because I was not able to control her. I was scared of taking her out in public because she would scream so loudly as if she was being tortured that everyone would stare. After what my family and I have been through, an emotional email from a distraught mum doesn’t scare me. I have seen fear in my childrens’ eyes; that’s when I knew that just because Mummy is scared, it doesn’t mean that Mummy doesn’t have the courage to keep fighting for her baby.
I am guilty of holding my child back, for fear of her failing. But if I never allow Maya to be challenged, how will she ever learn and grow? The future was full of unknown fears, because Autism has such a bleak prognosis, I didn’t know how I should plan our future. Leaving her in a room with a therapist was difficult, so was letting her go to school for the first time.
Doing the first blood draw was so traumatizing for Maya and us that it actually stopped us from pursuing biomedical treatments further. I was scared that doing biomed would require us to do more blood tests, the memory of that first blood draw still brings shivers through Paul and I. It took 6 people to hold Maya down, drop after drop of blood was squeezed out of her arm. Vials and vials of precious blood, to the sound of Maya’s horrific screaming. I swore to never let her go through that again.
Ironically, that horrific blood draw was not even for Biomed, it was actually for mainstream medical screening tests. The worst thing was, all those tests came back negative or inconclusive. The doctor didn’t find anything “wrong”, there were no treatments to follow up with except some vague remarks about giving cod liver oil. All that trauma for nothing, it imbedded a deep mistrust in the medical profession in me for a long time.
I kept making excuses and delaying to see a DAN doctor for several months. We’ll see the DAN doctor when…… her ABA program is well under way, when she gets over this cold, when she’s healthy, when she is more compliant, when she can listen to us and not meltdown when we travel with her etc. Then when both girls were hospitalized for Rotavirus, it suddenly hit me that if I were to wait to travel to see a Biomed doctor only when Maya was healthier or when she was more manageable, it will never happen. She was having colds, flu, fever, coughs and tummy aches constantly. She was still non-compliant, there were still epic tantrums and meltdowns whenever she wasn’t doing ABA. There were very few moments when it was convenient for us to take time off to travel to the doctor. There were always important ABA programs that we couldn’t take time off from, there will always be chores and meetings. There was never a perfect time to travel, there were always other commitments that took precedent. It was a lightbulb moment for me, I really understood then that my child was sick. She will not get healthier nor will her behaviour improve until I get her treated. I finally understood that taking care of her underlying medical health should be our foremost priority.
I finally got up my courage to take that step and make an appointment with a real DAN doctor, someone who was listed in the ARI website. 6 months of wasted time, only doing ABA and not doing anything about her medical health. I finally realised that I was scared of the blood draw, that this fear was holding my daughter back from getting the medical treatment she needs. That fear held us back for so long, that when we finally met our first and then our 2nd Biomed doctor, I felt so foolish. Because the fear that I was so afraid of was unwarranted. There were no blood draws involved! Only a prick on the finger for a blood spot.
Months later, we were required to do blood draws for certain tests as we were doing more and more complex treatments. However, we took it all in stride. Sure, it was difficult and painful to go through. But we realise that Maya got over it much quicker than we did, it was foolish of us to hang on to that fear when the pain has already worn off long ago. We just did another round of blood tests a few days ago. Maya cried, Paul went a little pale and I got choked up when I saw Maya’s blood spurting out of her vein. But we got over it. We know that in order to ensure that we do all these treatments as safely as possible, we do need to go through a blood test once in a while. A small amount of pain now, for a lifetime of happiness right?
This morning, I was sitting in the lobby of a dance school, waiting while Maya is having her ballet lesson. She has been pleading with us for months to go to ballet class, but I always held back because I felt that she was not ready for it. After some time, we finally took Maya in for a class. As always,
whenever we felt that we were pushing her over her limit or demanding too much from her, she always exceeded our expectations. Again and again, she has shown us how high she can soar. I am in awe of this beautiful daughter of mine, her heart is so big, her strength and courage puts me to shame. And yet, I still tend to hold her back for fear of failure. Whether it’s hers or mine, I’m not sure.
She did so amazingly well, in a class of a dozen little girls in identical pink tutus, you would not see her any differently from the other ballerinas. Except for her huge smile and graceful arabesques. She has had several classes and her enthusiasm and love for dancing is apparent. She pays attention and obeys everything the dance teacher says, points her toes and follows all the moves. She is dancing in a group with other tiny adorable ballerinas, stretching on the barre bars and standing at first position like a prima ballerina. I was surrounded by other mums who, though proud of their little girls, seem to take it for granted that their girls are fine. I’m so freaking proud of Maya that I had to stop grinning like a fool in the lobby, my heart is so full of pride for her I feel it would burst. They are chatting about family vacations and private schools, while I still can’t let go of the grip of Autism just yet.
In the first few months after Maya’s diagnosis, the fears and the tendency to hold Maya back was turning me into an Autism Victim. When I discovered that about myself, I swore not to be a victim, that my daughter and my family will not be a victim to Autism. Instead, together we took the journey to be Autism Survivors. Sometimes we need to go through a war in order to survive. Though the war on Autism is over in our home, we still feel like we’re living in a war-torn zone. It will take time to rebuild this family, though we are well on our way. It will take even longer to recover financially, though our initial investment has multiplied ten-fold in other ways. We have kicked the enemy’s ass and regained our country. We are no longer Autism Victims, we are now Autism Survivors.
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It has been a long time since I have written, my apologies to my friends whose support and encouragement are deeply appreciated. There are many thoughts that are just waiting to be published, but time and circumstances have not been kind lately.
I do miss the creative process of writing, innocuous as it may be. I have a long way to go before I can write well enough for my work to be published. Somehow, putting my thoughts and experience into words have a therapeutic effect on me. A lot of my writings here are emotionally draining, most of them delves into memories and emotions that sometimes I prefer suppressed. It takes a lot out of me to expose the sadness and grief that my family has gone through. Even writing about the happy memories are heart wrenching as well. Yet I keep asking myself why do I do it? Even my husband asks me time and again, why do I write this blog?
When I first started on this journey with Autism, it was painful to read about therapies and treatments that were simply not available in Malaysia. It seemed that everything that I wanted to do involved moving my family halfway across the world, with money that I don’t have. I wanted to know how to do these treatments here in Kuala Lumpur, how do I get these services and products? There should be a way to do it from here and I remember wasting a lot of precious time. Precious time that I hope to save for another child who needs treatment now. Very quickly, I learnt not to dwell on the things that I couldn’t do. Otherwise, the anger and resentment would eat me up inside, leaving me a soulless shell. It is a very self-destructive force and I didn’t want to end up a victim. Instead, I redirected and channelled my time and energy into more productive means.
Just because I couldn’t have Dr Bryan Jepson or Dr Kenneth Bock treat my daughter, I wasn’t going to waste my time crying about it. If I couldn’t get Amazon to ship a book I really wanted to Malaysia, I would get my local bookstore to order it in for me. If a supplement company wouldn’t deliver to Malaysia, I would have it shipped to a Hub service and get it rerouted to Malaysia. Even if all my wishes don’t come true, at least I tried. At least, I can honestly look into my daughter’s eyes and tell her that Mummy did her best. I didn’t hold back and reserve my energy and resources for a rainy day, my rainy day is now! It was a risk I had to take.
I didn’t mourn the fact that I couldn’t get the best and most experienced ABA therapists in Malaysia, instead I worked towards getting reliable and enthusiastic therapists who were willing to learn and work hard. No point getting the `best’ therapists if they don’t bond with your child, no point getting the `best’ therapists if they couldn’t commit to you. Absolutely no point getting a consult with a world-class doctor if it meant travelling 23 hours on an expensive flight and it’s going to drain away all your savings just on one consult. Leaving you with no money to pay for subsequent consults, supplements or tests. No point holding out for that precious consult with that famous doctor if it meant you would have to wait 9 months for an appointment, don’t wait! Do it now, see a doctor now. Who knows, that doctor who you or others label as being second-best may well be the best doctor for your child.
The best doctors and therapists are the ones who care about your child, the ones who are committed to helping you. If they do not have 10 years experience in biomed or ABA, so what? As long as they are willing to learn more along the way, work hard for your child and take the time to listen to you. These are all the people who will be with you along the journey, so make sure these are people you can trust. The so-called “best” may not be the best for you child.
If not for the advice, help and support of some amazing parents, friends, family, therapists, consultants and doctors, my daughter would never have come this far. Did you know that I have heard criticisms about every one of these people? No matter which doctor, therapist or consultant I had, there were always someone who had criticism about them? Everything was “unproven”, second-rate, not the best, it’s quackery, it wasn’t double-blind placebo studied etc. If I let my decisions be ruled by other people’s opinions, I wouldn’t have done anything at all. If I waited until mainstream medicine had conducted “proven” double-blind placebo studies on every treatment, Maya would have become a severely Autistic adult by then. Every single person, professional, product, therapy or treatment that I was doing have come under harsh criticisms. But, I learnt to put faith in my judgement. And I learnt that there are some people who are so negative, that being around them would drag me down into their world of negativity. I acknowledged that some people have been deeply hurt and disappointed with the world, and only seek to give me advise. But I realised that I would have to take some risks. I will never find approval from everyone, that there is no such thing as a 100% guarantee label on any Autism treatment or therapy. No such thing as the perfect therapy or treatment. These were times when I had to take a leap of faith.
I remember the unsung heroes too, the quiet ones who never get the acknowledgement, but without them, we wouldn’t be living this privileged life now. I give thanks to the Fedex guy who fights so hard on our behalf with Customs to get our supplements into this country. I am thankful for the kindness and patience of nurses and doctors’ receptionists who put up with my demands. My appreciation for the cook at Maya’s ABA school who kindly prepares GFCF meals for her. I love the grocers and shopkeepers who stock up on my favourite rice milk, GFCF cookies and spaghetti. Not only that, they take the time to reserve them in our name and call me to give me first dibs. How lovely is that?
I thank amazing friends who nearly broke their backs to carry 20kg bags of Epsom Salts and distribute it to others. Selfless friends who smuggle supplements into the country for me at their own personal risk. I thank the restaurant waiters who have served us for years with patience and graciousness, even though every time we bring our children, they create such noise and mayhem. We leave trails of destruction at every restaurant we go with spilt drinks, scattered crumbs, snotty tears and screams. Yet they still made us feel welcomed even though we usually leave in such a rush that we never remember to tip them. I am grateful to the florists who tolerate it every time my kids go past their shops, the girls would excitedly touch their beautiful floral creations. Overtime, the girls have learnt not to touch them, but occasionally they would forget. Even when their excited screams would drive away the other customers. Occasionally, I would buy a bouquet out of guilt but not enough to make up for the mayhem. Yet these guys have always been kind to my girls. I give out silent apologies to countless others who over the years I have been less than kind or brusque, usually arising from the stress and pressures of dealing with the girls. It doesn’t excuse any rudeness on my part, yet I have never intentionally set out to be unkind. I hope God will hear my apologies on their behalf.
I love each and every therapists who have taught Maya, their kindness, loyalty and commitment has more than made up for their so-called lack of qualifications and experience. In this, I have been blessed to have found the best support network for Maya. They may not live up to the expectations of what the best may be to some, but in this instance, they were the best for my girl.
I thank each and everyone who has written a comment on this blog, those who have read my writings and urge me to keep going. I would love to reply back to you, however if you didn’t w
rite your email address in the comment, sometimes I am not able to reply to you. Sorry if I didn’t write back, not that I didn’t care enough. Just that I didn’t know who you are, my friend…..
This blog is my small part in paying it forward. I remember how scared and lonely it was when we first dealt with Maya’s diagnosis. I was frustrated by the lack of Autism information that was specific to Malaysia. Most of the information regarding Autism treatments are USA-based. I remember writing to American-based biomed forums for advice, most of the time the replies though in theory were extremely helpful and well-meaning, they usually left me feeling even more dejected. All these parents would reply about supplements and treatments that just were not available here. I wished there was someone else who knew about where to get them, is it available etc.
Not that I ever expected to be spoon-fed, yet I felt that I kept wasting precious time working and digging towards something that turned out to be a dead-end. To me, this is what Autism is like, you feel like you’re trapped in an avalanche. Every day you are trapped underground, you’re a little further away from being rescued. There’s less energy, your food and water are running out. You’re surrounded by dirt, filth and excrement. The air feels stale and thin, you can’t seem to breathe deeply. After sometime, you face the fact that the rescue team can’t hear your cries. This is the point where you decide whether you give up and cry and stay trapped underground. Or do you dig a tunnel with your bare hands and find a way out. Without a spade, torchlight or water. Praying that you are digging in the right direction towards the surface.
If there was only some way that I could help even just one family find their way out a little bit faster, a little bit easier. I want to play my part in helping an innocent child out into the fresh air a little bit faster. I may not be able to excavate you out, but I hope you can hear my voice as I call out to you and you can dig towards my voice, towards the surface.
It has been 2 years since Maya was diagnosed, since then resources and support in Malaysia has increased a lot. I am proud to have played a part in this, small as it may be. Paying it forward…..in the hopes that you too, will pay it forward when a friend comes to you in need. I was lucky to have heard some powerful voices, who called out to me and cheered me on. Without their voice, my family would still be buried. Because of you, I’m joining the chorus of shouting. Autism is Treatable!
>There are 2 exciting Autism Biomedical events in Asia this month.
The World Autism Congress 2010 is being held in Hong Kong 15 -16 May 2010. Please visit www.worldautismcongress.com for more information. World-renowned biomedical experts such as Dr James Neubrander, Dr Andrew Wakefield, Dr Kenneth Bock, Dr J McCandless and many more will be presenting at this 2 day world-class symposium.
Conference on Autism: A Holistic Approach to Treating Autism is being held on 23 May 2010 in Singapore. Dr Kenneth Bock will be presenting as well as Dr James Partington. Please visit www.autismrec.net for more information.
Don’t miss this opportunity, it’s not too late to register.
Please refer to https://spectrummum.wordpress.com/2011/02/21/more-biomed-doctors-in-malaysia/ for the latest information regarding biomedical doctors in Malaysia.
Good news for Malaysian parents and children, there are now 2 biomed doctors in Kuala Lumpur!
Dr Ng of Gleneagles Hospital, KL is a Pediatric Neurologist. She attended the Defeat Autism Now! Clinician’s Training Level 1 in February 2010 (Phone 03-42571300)
Dr Eddie Chan of Dr Chan Specialist Clinic is a Pediatrician practicing in Puchong, Selangor. He attended the Defeat Autism Now! Clinician’s Training Level 1 in April 2010 (Phone 03-80623925)
Please consult with a biomed doctor in managing your child’s biomedical treatment. Autism is Treatable, Recovery is Possible!
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I came back from my 2nd DAN Conference in Baltimore full of hope, resolution and strength. It is a long way to travel ‘just’ to learn about how I can treat my girls, the cost alone could have paid for a few months worth of consults and supplements. A couple of months before the conference, I had read the list of speakers and topics they would cover and I found that 90% of it were materials that I had a special interest in. After doing biomedical treatments for Maya for 1 year, she has improved tremendously and we know that her Autism days are far behind. However, I am now trying to resolve her residual health issues.
I was also motivated by the need to address Yasmin’s issues. After doing biomedical treatments for 9 months, we have yet to see real progress in Yasmin. Though she is no longer in a fast-track downward spiral into Autism as before, we are dissatisfied by the lack of breakthroughs. We have consulted several mainstream and biomed doctors for Yasmin, yet no one has been able to address the root cause.
Paul and I worked out our budget trying to squeeze in that extra bit to finance my trip to the US. Again, I went alone as we could not afford for both of us to go. I planned it as carefully as I could, not wanting to leave my girls longer than necessary. No extra day’s grace to get over the jet lag or tiredness from the journey, no extra days for sightseeing or shopping. I was there and back in 6 1/2 days. Looking back, I don’t know how I did it, 27 hours trip to Baltimore and checked into the hotel an hour before the sessions started, and went straight into a 2 hour workshop on Thursday evening. I flew back on Sunday evening immediately after the last lecture, it took me 29 hours to get home. I am blessed to have such a supportive husband, I left my girls in his care and never had to worry if they were ok because I knew that they have a great daddy.
There were several workshops that evening, last year I chose the Family to Family Workshop by Lisa Ackerman, the founder of TACA. So this year, I chose Introduction To Biomedical by Dr Kyle Van Dyke. I felt that I needed to get back to the basics as I felt that there were some gaps in our treatment plans. A frequent speaker at many Autism and biomed conferences, Dr Van Dyke treats children with Autism as well as their siblings. He mentored and worked with Dr Elizabeth Mumper and now runs his own practice in Wisconsin. He became involved with DAN when his son was diagnosed with Autism in 2004.
From then on, the lectures and sessions just got harder and harder, it was the start of 3.5 days of the most intense biomedical and biochemistry lessons I have ever had to do. Friday, Saturday and Sunday was packed with lectures by the heroes of biomed; Dr Sidney Baker, Dr Jeff Bradstreet, Dr Kenneth Bock, Dr Anju Usman, Dr Bryan Jepson, Dr Dan Rossignol and many many more. Everywhere I turned, there was another familiar and famous name next to me. I also had a chance to catch up with Dr Mark Westaway, he is now doing full-time research with Dr Martha Herbert in Harvard for the prestigious TRANSCEND project. I made many new friends, mothers just like me and caught up with old friends too. I had a chance to talk to others who are part of the biomed community, namely compounding pharmacists, biochemists and speciality supplement manufacturers. I met many great mothers from TACA, they are generous with their time and advice. These women are strong and inspiring, no wonder their children are recovered.
Understanding biomed and medical treatments are especially difficult for me as I have never had a head for the sciences. During my high school years, I scored well enough in my SRP to be placed into the Science Stream. But halfway during Form 4, I kept failing Chemistry, Physics and Biology and my mother decided to move me to the Arts Stream. There, I thrived and did well in my studies. So, if I continously failed high school science, how was I going to learn all this? But the desire and motivation to learn this time was far far stronger than 20 years ago. The health of my 2 girls were at stake as well as a great deal of money invested. I had to make sure that I did my best and come back with at least something to show for it.
I came back not only armed with more knowledge on treatments, but also empowerment and strength. It is rare for an Autism Mum be part of the crowd, we are usually the ones hovering on the edge of society and social function because our kids behave atrociously in public. Our choices on how to treat our kids are often questioned, we face censure and judgmental opinions often as others feel that they know what is best for our kids. We are known as Autism Moms, a label I both dislike but am proud of. Here at the conference, WE are part of the norm, everyone I sit next to understands what I’ve been through, everyone I speak to doctors and parents alike do not treat me like an overanxious mother. Even amongst Autism Mums in Malaysia, I often felt isolated because I chose to do biomedical treatments for my child. However, now I’m blessed to have made many close friends as more and more parents are doing biomedical intervention in Malaysia. They are in the unique position of not only being an Autism Mum, but they too are Autism Biomed Mums.
They understand the excitement I felt at acquiring a painting by Mark Rimland, they understand it when I say that I got to bring a piece of Dr Bernard Rimland into my home. They shared in my happiness when I managed to get consults with Dr Kyle Van Dyke. They shared in the excitement when I spoke of talking to Dr Jeff Bradstreet, when Dr Sidney Baker took the time to answer my questions, of bumping into Dr Kenneth Bock every day at the conference. They understood of how I jumped for joy when my shipment of MB12 and DMSA arrived at my hotel. And they understand why I would go to great lengths to keep seeking answers for my children.
Our mother’s instincts is a gift that all mothers have, so use it wisely. Keep on going, don’t stop looking for answers for our kids, travel across oceans if need be. Act with bravery, courage and caution my friends.
>Malaysia’s biomedical website is now live, please visit www.klbiomed.com . The website is a resource for Malaysian parents doing biomedical treatments. You can also be a Friend of KL Biomed on Facebook. Sign up here at www.facebook.com
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We are gradually transitioning Maya into a mainstream kindergarten for the past 2 weeks. Together with a shadow, we started Maya for 1 hour a day every day at the new school. Meanwhile, Maya still gets at least 5 hours of intensive ABA everyday. She immediately liked her new teacher and she has enjoyed every new experience. So far, she has done a science experiment, a music and dance class, a speech and drama session, learnt Mandarin in school and gone on a field trip with her classmates.
1. ProBio Gold 20 Billion CFU multi- we initially used this, it made a great difference because my girls were really low on beneficial bacteria. But after extended use, it doesn’t seem to be as effective and cause constipation for my girls. Contains 4 types of Lacto, 1 type of Bifido and 750 million CFU strep
All of the probiotics have been helpful and effective in some manner with my girls. There is no real favorites here as rotating it seems to work best for my girls. Currently we just started using New Beginning’s Probiotic, there doesn’t seem to be any amazing improvements, but neither is there a bad reaction. Most kids are ok with strep strains in the probiotic blend, however this is child-specific. For my girls, it seems that continued use of Probio Gold and Therbiotic Complete has built-up the strep levels to the point where it affected them, usually tummy ache, constipation, irritability etc. The strep strain here is Streptococcus Thermophilus which is actually a good probiotic, but some children may not be able to tolerate prolonged dosages of it. When first starting biomed without a DAN doctor, you can choose Probio Gold as it is GFCF, has a good range of probiotic strains, it is high potency and it is easily accessible from our specialist retailers in Jakarta and Singapore or to purchase online. 20-25 Billion CFU is a good amount for ASD kids. However, if your DAN Doctor carries a range of Klaire Labs products, then I would recommend Klaire Labs Therbiotic Complete. Klaire Labs products can only be ordered by a doctor, if your DAN doctor does not carry this or if you do not have a DAN doctor, you can try to persuade a local doctor to help you order this from http://www.klairelabs.com directly. However, if you suspect that strep might be an issue, then please find alternative types.
It is recommended to rotate probiotics, by rotating I mean finishing 1 bottle, and for the next bottle to purchase a different type. Not rotate on a daily basis. I would not recommend New Beginnings Probiotic for beginners to biomed as your child may probably not be ready for anti-fungals just yet. However, once you are ready for anti-fungal treatment, then you may try this. Again, this is dependant on whether your child can tolerate S.Boulardii. For higher potency probiotics – VSL#3 is a very high potency multi-flora formulation usually to treat severe gut issues such as ulcerative colitis and Crohn’s disease. It is also beneficial for those diagnosed with Inflammatory Bowel Disease and with high oxalates. Please use this under the supervision of a medical doctor.
There are other probiotic in the market, do not limit yourself only to my list. There is no perfect probiotic that I’ve found (so far) it’s best to rotate and observe which ones is more suitable for your child. Probiotics is high on my list of essential supplements for both my girls.
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Every little milestone my girls achieve is another celebration in my home. Big or small, whether it was at age-appropriate developmental milestone or if it came 1.5 years later. Based on many accounts of parents with either neuro-typical or children on the Autism spectrum, their kids were toilet trained (fully or partially or only for daytime) around the age of 2.5 – 3 years old. This turned out to be a struggle for us.
KL Biomed Invites You To:
A PRESENTATION BY DR RINA ADELINE, MD
A DEFEAT AUTISM NOW! DOCTOR
Time: 7:30pm – 9:30pm
Date: Tuesday, 9 February 2010
Refreshments will be served
Venue: Level 5, Matahari 2, Cititel Hotel @MidValley, Lingkaran Syed Putra, 59200 Kuala Lumpur
Registration Fee: RM100.00 per person
Family & Friends Special Offer:
Register for 2 attendees for only RM180.00
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About Dr Rina Adeline, MD
Dr Rina Adeline, MD, Dr.MS, Sp.MK is a dedicated member of the Autism Research Institute (ARI) and is trained as a Defeat Autism Now! (DAN!) Doctor. She is a Medical Doctor with a background in Family Medicine. She lectures at the Dept. of Microbiology, Faculty of Medicine, University Padjadjaran, Indonesia. She is head of Klinik Intervensi Biologis Medik, the clinic specializes in treating children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and other related disorders. Dr Rina has treated over 1000 children with ASD. She has completed the following training with Defeat Autism Now! Completed Level I Clinician Seminar 2007, Completed Level II Clinician Seminar 2008, 2009.
What Is Biomedical?
Biomedical Intervention is an alternative treatment for Autism Spectrum Disorder and other related disorders. It seeks to treat the root causes of the disorder with vitamin supplementation and dietary changes. Find out the causes of Autism and the Interventions that can help. For more information on biomedical treatments, please visit www.autism.com
If you are a parent or a professional involved in the care of a child diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, PDD-NOS, Aspergers, Aspraxia and other related disorders, this presentation is for you.
“I would like other families to know that Autism is treatable, reversible, and in some cases curable. There is hope for any child, no matter how severely afflicted. All children, with intensive biomedical protocols, can improve and enjoy a better quality of life.” – Claudia, USA
To Register
Please RSVP by 2 February 2010. Register early, limited seats available. This event is for adults only. To register, please email us your name(s) telephone number and email address to klbiomed@gmail.com Payment details wil be sent out to you when you register.